Once upon a time, the American Dream looked like the jackpot.
Work hard. Get a solid job. Buy a house. Retire at 65 with a gold watch and a pension.
That formula worked. For them. Decades ago.
But for you?
You did what you were told. Played by the book. And now you’re stuck.
The corporate ladder? Overrated.
You looked up and saw burnt-out execs with poor health and broken families.
You chased the title, the paycheck, the praise. But found burnout instead.
You saw loyalty rewarded with layoffs. Decades erased in a single cold-blooded email.
You poured your energy into building a life you were promised, not the one you actually wanted.
You did everything “right.”
And still ended up wondering: Right for who?
You Watched It Happen
While you posted food, others built empires.
You laughed at TikToks. You posted vacation pics. You saw social media as a fun distraction.
They didn’t.
Teenagers turned hobbies into 6-figure full-time income.
They learned storytelling. Built brands. Mastered engagement.
They didn’t wait for permission. They built leverage.
And you? You got left behind.
Now, you side-eye creators. Call them fake. Call it a scam. Just a bunch of self-proclaimed "gurus" selling dreams that don’t work.
But the truth?
You're not mad because it’s BS. You’re mad because you don’t get it. And instead of learning, you let your ego get in the way.
Reality check: The game changed. You just weren’t paying attention.
Your Ego Is Keeping You Broke
Learning makes you feel small. So you don’t.
You avoid new skills because starting from zero stings. It’s a hard pill to swallow.
Everything you’ve learned and believed for years? Outdated.
It’s easier to blame the algorithm. The Gen Z. The capitalism.
You say the system is broken. That these young content creators just got lucky.
That internet is ruining everything. But grumbling won’t change your life.
Newsflash: Complaining isn’t a Strategy.
Action is.
You’re Not Too Late. You’re Playing the Wrong Game
The system didn’t fail you. You outgrew it.
Old game: work harder, stay on the ladder, wait for your turn.
New game: leverage platforms, learn fast, compound digital skills.
You’re not too late. You’re just hard-stuck in a loop: clinging to a dying model while the world evolves without you.
So here’s the choice:
Stay stuck. Keep complaining. Watch others succeed while you stay exactly where you are.
Swallow your ego. Embrace the discomfort. Start learning the skills that will make you relevant in the new game.
The world isn’t waiting for you to catch up.
Adapt or get left behind.
Stay bitter. Or get better.
Your call.
Your Next Move Starts Now
Here’s how to get unstuck, starting today:
Pick one skill in the digital space.
Writing, editing, storytelling, marketing, AI tools. Whatever speaks to you.
Go deep.Post one thing a day.
Doesn’t have to be perfect. Consistency beats perfection every time. Build momentum.Follow people 10 steps ahead.
Not to feel inspired. To learn how they think.Kill your pride.
You don’t need to look smart. You need to get smart.
Get into the rookie shoes. Learn the craft.Set a 30-day experiment.
Not a life decision. A test.
Run it. Review. Iterate.
No more waiting. No more excuses. No more grumbling.
You’re not behind. You’re just untrained.
And stuck isn’t permanent.
But irrelevant? That’s next to erased.
So start small. Make a mess. Post anyway.
You don’t need a plan. You need movement.
The game has changed.
So change with it.
Time’s up! Your move.
With the intention to redefine the essence of the familiar "Sandwich generation" as an unexpected gut-punch, I'm adding this piece to the April challenge.
@Mark and @Moon Arica
With the intention to redefine the essence of the familiar "Sandwich generation" as an unexpected gut-punch, I'm adding this piece to the April challenge.
@sayzey and @moonaricathoughts